Newsletter of the Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago

January 2007

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Welcome to Our January Annual Living Ethics Series

JEROME MCDONNELL, host of WBEZ radio’s popular Worldview, opens our Living Ethics series on Sunday, January 7th. His topic is “Global Activists: People Who Make the World a Better Place.” McDonnell will discuss how the many individuals he has interviewed have made a huge difference in people’s lives through small-scale efforts and with minimal resources.

GEOFFREY STONE, Professor of Law at the University of Chicago, continues our Living Ethics series on Sunday, January 14th. His topic is “Perilous Times: Civil Liberties in Wartime.” Stone will place the current debate over preserving free speech in a long-term historical context, ranging from the infamous Sedition Act of 1798 to the current war on terrorism.

RAYMOND PIERREHUMBERT, Professor in Geophysical Sciences at the University of Chicago, continues our Living Ethics series on Sunday, January 21st. His topic is “Global Warming and the Climate Bottleneck.” Pierrehumbert will discuss how global warming due to human activities has created an unprecedented environmental crisis. Today’s decisions, he warns, will determine the kind of planet our descendants will live on.

PHILIP HOCKBERGER, Professor of Physiology and Neuroscience at Northwestern University, concludes our Living Ethics series on Sunday, January 28th. His topic is “Science Vs. Religion: The Search for Truth.” Hockberger will discuss the possibility of developing a world view and belief system that combines the best of both approaches.

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Coming Activities and Events

Our SUNDAY MORNING COLLOQUIES, led by Ken Novak, meet in the library from 9:20 to 10 a.m. This month’s themes are Letting Go on Jan. 7, Truth on Jan. 14, Pity on Jan. 21, and Humor on Jan. 28. These small gatherings are designed to create a safe time and place to examine how we live our lives. At these sessions, we wait our turn, avoid advice, and avoid repeating what we hear to others.

Our READERS THEATER GROUP, led by Susan Burck, starts off the New Year on Monday, January 1st, at 7 p.m. We read aloud from a variety of plays or other writings in an informal, friendly setting. Everyone is welcome. For information, contact Susan at burck@earthlink.net.

Our FIRST FRIDAY WINTER MOVIE SERIES, hosted by Dick Carney, opens on January 5th. We’ll see an acclaimed satirical masterwork from the late director Robert Altman—hint: it rhymes with “dash.” The curtain rises precisely at 7:17 p.m. Afterward we’ll enjoy refreshments. Before leaving, we’ll fill in the roster for the rest of the season from several attractive options. (Suggestions that aren’t too esoteric or downbeat are welcome.)

Our next FICTION CIRCLE, led by Ken Novak, is on Sunday, January 7th, at 12:20 p.m. We’ll discuss Nobel laureate Orhan Pamuk’s novel Snow, about secular and religious conflict in a remote Turkish town in the 1990s, as seen through the eyes of an expatriate poet.

Our KNITTING & CONVERSATION evening with Vicki, Teri, and Marla is on Tuesday, January 9th, at 7:30 p.m., at the home of Vicki Elberfeld in Park Ridge. As always, bring any already begun projects—yarn, needles, and instructions will be available. Needlepointers and crocheters also are welcome. To tell Vicki you’re coming and for directions, contact her at velberf@hotmail.com.

Our Second Saturday Coffeehouse, hosted by Vicki Elberfeld, is on January 13th, at 8 p.m. The program features a dynamic duo: our own Rachel Baiman, on violin and mandolin, and Tim Coan, with vocals and on guitar. Their performance, spanning a spectrum from Duke Ellington to Jethro Tull, includes bluegrass, jazz, folk, and rock. As usual, signup for our open mike (any genre, all acoustic) begins at 7:30 p.m. There are a $5 cover charge and moderately priced refreshments.

Our FILM DISCUSSION GROUP, led by Alan Kimmel, meets on Monday, January 15th, at 7:15 p.m. We’ve again chosen two exciting currently playing films. The Painted Veil is a romantic drama based on a Somerset Maugham story. It stars Naomi Watts and Ed Norton and is directed by Jim Curran. Notes on a Scandal is a dramatic portrayal of the relations between two women. It stars Kate Blanchett and Judi Dench and is directed by Richard Eyre.

Our DOCUMENTARY FILM NIGHT, hosted by Marne Glaser and Paul Ozarowski, is on Friday, January 19th, at 7:30 p.m. We’ll see Peace One Day, a documentary charting British filmmaker Jeremy Gilley’s journey around the world that persuaded the UN to establish September 21st as an International Day of Peace. There will also be a concurrent showing of a children’s film. Refreshments and a discussion will follow.

Our ETHNIC DINNER OUT resumes on January 20th, the third Saturday of the month. We’ll enjoy authentic Colombian dishes in the intimate setting of the Sabor A Café, 2435 W. Peterson Ave., in Chicago. The menu includes meat, seafood, and vegetarian dishes—and delicious desserts. There is street parking. We order at 5:30 p.m. To say you’re coming, contact Richard Curren at richard_curren@yahoo.com.

Our CREATIVE WRITERS GROUP, led by Milt Zerkin, meets on the fourth Sunday this month, January 28th, at 12:30 p.m. We’ll again share our original short works. As always, newcomers are welcome.

Our ETHICAL HUMANITIES non-fiction group, led by Ken Novak, meets again on Sunday, February 4th, at 12:20 p.m. We’ll discuss Introducing Kafka, a graphic biography of Franz Kafka written by David Zane Mairowitz and illustrated by Robert Crumb.

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Recent Sunday Programs

CHRIS FASCIONE, storyteller and actor, presented an intergenerational program called “Juggling Funny Stories” on November 19th. He was introduced by Lisa Crowe.

Helped by children from our Sunday School, Fascione used both his voice and pantomime in a lively and delightful execution of several stories, folk tales, and poems, each with an uplifting moral lesson for both children and adults: “Watch Out for the Chicken Feet in Your Soup,” “Too Much Noise,” “Casey at the Bat,” and “Sick.” After each piece, he pointedly urged our children, “Go to the library—and check it out!” Fascione concluded his performance by declaring, “Keep reading—and use your imagination!”

ABE DOLGOFF, a member of the Society, reviewed and commented on Spencer Klaw’s Without Sin: the Life and Death of the Oneida Community on November 26th. He was introduced by John Ungashick.

Abe described the utopian Oneida Community, founded in 1848 in upstate New York by biblical fundamentalist John H. Noyes, as a “major social experiment of its time.” He said that Noyes and his wife, Harriet Holman, preaching that pleasure was the purpose of life, established a model Christian community based on the unusual sexual practice of “complex marriage” and the “super family.” In what Abe called “a benevolent despotism,” Noyes strictly controlled the private lives of the inhabitants.

The Oneida community, Abe noted, glorified work, established profitable manufacturing enterprises, and built a rich cultural life. It eventually broke up, he added, because of property disputes, sexual rivalries, and a fight over the succession to Noyes, who had left for Canada. “It’s the same old story,” Abe observed, “over how much privacy individuals are willing to give up.” Such utopian colonies are “a form of escapism,” he concluded, because “We can’t run away from problems.

NADER HASHEMI, post-doctoral fellow in political science at Northwestern University, spoke on December 3rd. His topic was “Religion, Democracy, and Radical Politics in the Muslim World.” The meeting was chaired by Ed Drower.

Hashemi said there is a ”volatile and complex crisis of religion and politics” in the Muslim world. He disputed as “emotionally charged” and “inadequate” the charges in the

West that Muslims are “different” and “violent,” and the apologies by Muslims who wish to separate themselves from extremists. Citing the centuries of religious and political violence in Europe, he said “there is enough to go around.”

Nevertheless, Hashemi called the recent emergence of Islamic fundamentalism a “baffling development.” He noted the religious revivals in both Christian and Muslim societies as “a quest for identity.” He stressed the “importance of the political and economic context” in history and noted our own record of Puritanism, slavery, and the denial of women’s rights. He declared that political change “comes not from documents but from peoples’ struggles.” Muslim societies, he concluded, are in the early stages of “a historical development in the fight for human rights.”

EDWARD LAUMANN, Professor of Sociology at the University of Chicago, spoke on December 10th. His topic was “Sexual Well-Being: Global Attitudes and Beliefs.” The meeting was chaired by Katie Merrell.

Laumann described a “deep and far-reaching” global research study he led on sexual attitudes and behaviors. The study concentrated on men and women in the 40–to 80–age group and reached some 27,000 respondents in almost 30 countries. He cited problems in selecting interviewees and conceded a possible bias in any self-reporting survey. But he reported that despite varied religious, cultural, and ethnic differences among the interviewees, there were marked similarities in sexual satisfaction.

Laumann stressed the importance of the “relational and caring aspects” of sex and noted a high correlation between sexual wellbeing and overall happiness. Although “sexuality is a leading indicator of general health,” he noted that there is “a silence with doctors.” Sexual health suffers from “a conspiracy of silence,” he added, with the U.S. among the most conservative nations in matters of sex education.

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Our People

Katie and David Wokosin have joined the Society. They live in Skokie. David is a research professor of physiology at Northwestern University. Katie is a home-schooling mom. They especially value “the ethical awareness of the Society” and the Sunday School, in which their sons Kevin and Andrew are enrolled. Welcome to you all!

Jerry Dincin is also a new member. Jerry lives in Highland Park. He is a retired psychologist and former executive director of the social service agency Thresholds. Once a member of the Brooklyn Ethical Society, he was attracted by our mix of cultures and religions and wanting to be “with like-minded people.” Welcome, Jerry!

Rachel Baiman, daughter of Ron and Shelly Baiman, is one of our youngsters who went to the Youth of Ethical Societies (YES) Conference in Virginia in November. Her name was inadvertently omitted from the article in the December newsletter. Rachel will be a featured performer at the Second Saturday Coffeehouse on January 13th.

Param Sritantia and Jessica Heineman-Pieper were married on Saturday, December 16th, at the Fairmont Hotel in Chicago. Officiating at the ceremony was Ken Novak. We wish the couple a long and happy married life!

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Sunday School Scoop

In December Marilee Cole led the Coming-of-Age group in an art project to age photos of themselves. The kids got a rare opportunity to peek at their future selves. Thanks, Marilee! We ended the month and the year with our annual Winter Festival. We had a solstice play, many skilled musical performances, a gingerbread house raffle, and the traditional mitten tree and candle-lighting ceremony. Tom Hoeppner again led the festivities with his usual grace and style. Thanks to everyone who participated in this warm community event.

Last month we sent a check for $139.38 to Pennies for Peace, an ongoing project to help educate the world’s children. Keep that spare change coming—it really adds up! Also, with your help, we provided holiday gifts for six needy children through Skokie’s Assist-a-Family program. Thanks to all whose generous contributions made it possible.

The Sunday School resumes on January 7th, following our winter break. This month we’ll explore the topics of homelessness, civil rights, Native American culture, and renewable energy. Our next Sunday School Committee meeting is on January 21st. The YES group will have a bagel sale after the program on January 28th. Many wishes for peace and joy in the new year!
Sharon Appelquist, Director

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Notices and Announcements

Our Annual Pledge Drive is into its final stage. By mid-December, pledges had reached $43,694, or 78 percent of our $55,000 goal. So far, 87 members—including 41 of those remarkable folks, our Sustaining Members—have sent in their pledges. We’re awed by their commitment and generosity! (Now let’s hear from the dwindling number of members who haven’t yet pledged.) If you have questions, contact Treasurer John Ungashick at jungasick@aol.com.

John asks those who must make a minimum IRA distribution because they are 701/2 or older to consider a tax-free charitable IRA rollover of part of their pledge to the Society.

It may be too late for this year, but you can check with your IRA administrator (bank, mutual fund company, etc.) for 2007.

Our Sunday Collection is a substantial source of income for the Society. With the 10 percent earmarked for charity accumulating to more than $400 in the last few months, Ethical Action chair Brian Barnes is asking for recommendations on who the recipients should be. Contact Brian at bbarnes2325@comcast.net.

Our Society library has some new books: What Is Secular Humanism? by prominent secular humanist Paul Kurtz, and A Trout in the Sea of Cortez, a novel by John Salter, son of member Hunter Gray. Library supervisor Fred Malkinson reminds us that the books are shelved alphabetically by author. Come in and browse, then check out a book.

Our Board of Trustees meets on Wednesday, January 10th, at 7:15 p.m., in the library. Any member is welcome to attend. Anyone interested in running for election to the Board at our June 7th Annual Membership Meeting can contact a member of the Board Nominating Committee—John Ungashick, Sue Walton, Peter Less, Sharon Appel-quist, and Renee Sullivan. Four slots will be open—those of Peter Less and Ed Drower, who are retiring, and Matt Cole and John Ungashick, who are up for reelection.

Membership in the Society is open to all. For information about the Society or the Ethical movement, Either see membership Chair Tom Hoeppner or contact him at Thomas_J_Hoeppner@rush.edu.This month’s Membership Orientation is on Sunday, January 14th, at 12:00 p.m. The Membership Committee meets on Sunday, January 28th, at 12:15 p.m. Society members are invited to share their ideas for increasing our membership.

Our Tribute Fund (see below) is a convenient way to publicly honor each other—with congratulations on a birthday, anniversary, or graduation, condolences on the loss of a loved one, wishes for recovery from an illness, or hailing a good deed. Get a Tribute form from a literature table.

Newsletter subscriptions are $20 per year—if you’re not a member, a contributing friend, or new on our mailing list. Get the free pdf edition by e-mailing the office (include pdfnewsletter as the subject and your name and address). Pick up a free printed newsletter at our building.

Take public transportation to our Sunday morning meetings. The #290 PACE bus leaves the Howard L station at 9:30 a.m. and goes along Touhy Ave. to Cicero Ave. (Skokie Blvd.). From there it’s a short walk to our building. A return #290 bus to the Howard station leaves Touhy and Cicero at 1:20 p.m.

For the February newsletter deadline, reports of Society activities must be received by Saturday, January 20th.

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Tribute Fund

“Get-well wishes to Sheila Caplan Curren
—from Matt & Marilee Cole

“Thanks to the Society for support of the Sunday School in honor of Jessica Kramer’s graduation”
—from Janet Kuhn

“In memory of Ruth Miller
—from Yolanda Adler

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About Us

The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago is a democratic fellowship and spiritual home for those who seek a rational, compassionate philosophy of life without regard to belief or nonbelief in a supreme being. We value the importance of living an ethical, responsible, and joyful life. We promote intellectual, philosophical, and artistic freedom, avoiding dogma and rigid creed. We nurture a sense of wonder about life, nature, and the universe, and are inspired by models of human achievement. Shaped by the forces of humanism, democracy, science, and religious reform, we cherish human diversity and focus on what we have in common, not on what keeps us apart.

While respectful of the faiths and traditions we may have been born to, we serve as a new religion or as an alternative to religion.

We care for and support each other, sharing our joys and sorrows. Like traditional religious communities, we celebrate births, conduct wedding ceremonies, host memorial services, and provide for the caring, ethical education of our children.

We believe in deed beyond creed and in working for a better world. We recognize the worth and dignity of every person, and strive to act so as to bring out the best in others and thereby in ourselves.

Meetings of the Ethical Humanist Society are at our home in the Greiner Center, 7574 N. Lincoln Ave., Skokie, IL 60077. Sunday meetings start at 10:30 a.m. Refreshments and a social hour follow the program. Child care is available. Everyone is welcome. If you need transportation, please call the Society office by 1 p.m. Friday. We will try to get a ride for you. The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago was founded in 1882. The Society is a member of the American Ethical Union.

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The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago, founded in 1882, is a member of the American Ethical Union.

Officers and Trustees: Scott Walton, President; Matt Cole &
Dick Carney, Vice Presidents; Paul Ozarowski, Secretary; John Ungashick, Treasurer; Yolanda Adler, Joe Burck, Sheila Caplan Curren, Ed Drower, Peter Less, Oliver Pergams, Claude Williams

Sunday School Director: Sharon Appelquist
Office Administrator:
Alison Martin
Newsletter Editor: Alan Kimmel
Ethical Officiants: Marne Glaser, Jo-Ann Hoeppner, Tom Hoeppner, Ken Novak
AEU Representative: Tom Hoeppner

Webmaster: Simeon Carson


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