Newsletter of the Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago

November 2007

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Welcome to Our Sunday Morning Programs in November

DANIEL MARCOTTE, popular minstrel singer known as Bardsong, presents an intergenerational program, “Unicorns and Dragons: Renaissance Songs and Stories,” on Sunday, November 4th. A musician and storyteller like the bards of ancient Wales and Ireland, Marcotte creates unique story-songs from both ancient and modern melodies and rhythms.

CALVIN MORRIS, Executive Director of the Community Renewal Society, speaks on Sunday, November 11th. His topic is “Drugs and the American Criminal [In]-Justice System.” A theologian and longtime South Side social activist, Morris will discuss the disparities in criminal sentencing as they affect people of color and their implications for the broader society.

JIM CONLON, conservation biologist and owner of Elysian Energy consultants, speaks on Sunday, November 18th. His topic is “Home Energy Efficiency: Saving Money and the Environment.” Conlon will discuss energy audits of our homes and describe strategies for cost-effective and environmentally protective improvements in our uses of energy.

KAREN HAIGH, Executive Director of the Family Development Center at Governors State University, speaks on Sunday, November 25th. Her topic is “Early Childhood Learning: The Reggio Emilia Approach.” Haigh will describe the U.S. adaptation of this open-ended educational tradition that originated in Italy and focuses on teacher development and community involvement.

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Coming Activities and Events

A special TOWN MEETING of Society members is planned for Sunday, November 4th, 12:30 to 2:00 p.m., in the auditorium.We’ll hear informative reports from our many committee and activity chairs and discuss how to better co-ordinate their work and communicate with our membeship.

Our SUNDAY MORNING COLLOQUIES are from 9:20 a.m. to 10 a.m., in the library. Led by Ken Novak, we meet in a small, nonjudgmental group to share and examine how we live our lives. This month’s topics are Heart on Nov. 4, Thoughtfulness on Nov. 11, Thoroughness on Nov. 18, and Character on Nov. 25.

Our READERS THEATRE GROUP meets on Monday, November 5th, at 7 p.m. Come and have fun. Read a play with us. For information, call Susan Burck.

Our SECOND SATURDAY COFFEE HOUSE, hosted by Vicki Elberfeld, is on Saturday, November 10th, at 8 p.m. The featured performer will be Kat Eggleston, virtuoso guitarist, dulcimer player, and songwriter, with a striking, passionate, alto voice. Open-mike sign-up (all acoustic, all genres) begins at 7:30 p.m. There is a $5 minimum charge at the door, and moderately priced refreshments are available.

Our next FICTION CIRCLE is on Sunday, November 11th, at 12:15 p.m. In this second omnigenerational Fiction Circle, Ken Novak will lead a discussion of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. We’ll talk about what we’ve learned from Harry’s, Ron’s, and Hermione’s experiences as this phenomenal coming-of-age series comes to a close. Readers of all ages are invited.

Our DOCUMENTARY FILM NIGHT is on Friday, November 16th, at 7:30 p.m. We’ll see Found in China, with filmmaker Carolyn Stanek as special guest host. The film follows six families who adopted baby girls in China in the early ’90s and returned there with them recently, focusing on the girls’ insights into their adoptions and Asian American identities. A children’s film will be shown concurrently; childcare will be provided. Coffee and discussion follow—please bring snacks to share. For further details see Marne Glaser, Paul Ozarowski, or David Wokosin.

Our ETHNIC DINNER OUT is on Saturday, November 17th, at Tre Konor, 3758 W. Foster Ave., in Chicago. We’ll enjoy the best Scandinavian fare, including Nor-wegian salmon, pork tenderloin, Swedish meatballs with lingonberries, rib eye with mushrooms, Malmo chicken breast, and ham. (BYOB.) We’ll order at 5:00 p.m. If you’re coming, please contact Richard Curren at or richard_curren@yahoo.com. There’s only street parking—but come!

Our FILM DISCUSSION GROUP, led by Alan Kimmel, meets on Monday, November 19th, at 7:15 p.m. We’ve again chosen two currently playing movies. Michael Clayton is a lawsuit thriller written and directed by Tony Gilroy, starring George Clooney, Tom Wilkerson, Tilda Swinton, and Sydney Pollack. Lars and the Real Girl is a comedic sexual fable directed by Craig Gillespie, with Ryan Gosling, Emily Mortimer, and Paul Schneider.

Our CREATIVE WRITERS GROUP, led by Milt Zerkin, meets as usual on the fourth Sunday of the month, November 25th, at 12:15 p.m. It’s a chance to share your short original works with us. Newcomers are welcome.

Our next ETHICAL HUMANITIES discussion is on Sunday, December 2nd, at 12:15 p.m. We’ll discuss Stumbling on Happiness, by Daniel Gilbert, Harvard University professor of psychology. For an audio copy, contact Ken Novak at kennovak@gmail.com.


Recent Sunday Programs

DAVID KRAFT, director of the Nuclear Energy Information Service, returned on September 16th to speak on “Nuclear Power: No Help in a Global Warming World.” The meeting was chaired by Lisa Crowe.

“They’re back!” Kraft began, warning that in the guise of combating global warming, the nuclear power industry is attempting “a nuclear renaissance.” He pointed to the unsolved problem of nuclear waste disposal, the great cost of nuclear reactor construction, and the danger from possible earthquakes and terrorist attacks. Even then, he claimed, little carbon would be kept from the atmosphere.

“There is another way to combat global warming,” Kraft said, “through sustainable, renewable energy” such as wind and solar power. He castigated government liability insurance subsidies to the nuclear industry. Deriding energy companies as “pushers,” he chided us for being “energy addicts.” Kraft asked us to think of the “dumbest uses of electricity” and urged that we “network in reducing energy consumption.”

GLORIA GROOM, curator at the Art Institute of Chicago, returned on September 23rd to speak on “Spirituality, Mission, and Modernism in the Art of Van Gogh and Gauguin.” The meeting was chaired by Oliver Pergams.

Groom contrasted the lives and work of painters Vincent Van Gogh and Paul Gauguin. She discussed their “rivalrous friendship,” pointing to their exchange of letters and paintings. She said Van Gogh grew up with little religious dogma and came to have a more humanist outlook. He wanted artists to “create their own religion.” Gauguin, however, “could not get away from his Catholic upbringing” and even saw himself as a “Christ-like martyr,” she added.

Groom showed many slides of their brilliantly colored and textured paintings, highlighting Van Gogh’s recurring themes of nature and peasant life and Gauguin’s “escape to primitive societies.” She noted that Gauguin was the “more personable” and had a greater following. Commenting on our contemporary view of 19th century art, she said “a return to the old-master techniques is a real positive thing.”

RAY PARRISH, counselor for the Vietnam Veterans Against the War, spoke on September 30th. His topic was “Home from War: Helping Vets with Post-Combat Stress.” The meeting was chaired by Marne Glaser.

Born into a military family, and as a Vietnam War veteran, Parrish described post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), attributing it to “a guilty conscience” and “a fear of returning to war.” He said that PTSD afflicts many combat veterans, making them unable to cope with civilian life. Parrish criticized delays in VA treatment, ironically adding that many who leave the military with less than honorable discharges because of PTSD are excluded as ineligible. He charged the VA with “balancing its budget on the backs of the vets.”

Parrish said that veterans need “political therapy.” By wearing our “Peace” buttons we show our support for them, he added. Noting that he “debates the recruiters” in the high schools, he called for “counter-recruiting.” The veterans want “to be forgiven” and “to hear ‘Welcome home.’” They need “to trust America again,” he concluded.

BOB BERSON, Leader of the Northern Westchester (NY) Ethical Society, spoke on October 7th, as part of our 125th anniversary commemoration. His topic was “Felix Adler and the Concept of Human Worth in Ethical Culture.” The meeting was chaired by Jo-Ann Hoeppner.

“The concept of human worth is a first principle of ethical culture,” Bob declared. It is “necessary for an ethical philosophy of life.” Differing from mere value, “the concept is universal” and affirms that each human being is “irreplaceable, indispensable, and unique,” he said. In its practical application, he added, it is by seeking “to improve the conditions of life that we allow the best in each of us to emerge.”

Bob conceded that there is no limit to the human capacity for either good or evil but pointed to our “powerful potentials for decency.” He contended that it is by treating people humanely that we remain human ourselves. “Our worth is manifested in relationships,” he said. “It is through our affirmation of worth that we act to elicit the best in others.” He said that our “faith” is in “inquiry and questioning.”

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Our People

Roslyn Cole, mother of Matt Cole, died in Florida on September 21st at the age of 96. Fondly known as Rozy, “she touched anyone who knew her,” Matt recalls. Our condolences to Matt, his wife Marilee, and to all who, like granddaughter Dara said at her memorial, felt “bathed in your love.” e

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Sunday School Scoop

Last month’s Children’s Fair was a great success, even though the rain kept us inside. Thanks to all the parents and volunteers who helped set up, run the games, and clean up—and to the children and adults who stayed to eat, play, and be part of the fun.

We’re still collecting gently-used eyewear for Sight Night—to be cleaned, repaired, and hand-delivered to individuals worldwide who can’t otherwise access or afford them. We’ve also begun a drive for the Niles Food Pantry. We ask that you bring your donations and place them in the bin in the reception area.

On November 4th we’ll enjoy Dan Marcotte’s intergenerational Renaissance song and story program. On November 18th we’ll have a Sunday School Family Pot-Luck Breakfast at 9:30 a.m., with our Sunday School Committee starting a half hour earlier, at 9:00 a.m. We hope to see all our families and friends there!

Sharon Appelquist, Director

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Notices and Announcements

Our special Building Fund Appeal has collected $8,030. We salute the 50 members who reached beyond their normal pledges to help pay for the beautiful new floor and entrance way in the reception hall. Thank you!

Our Tribute Fund is a convenient, caring way we can publicly honor each other—with congratulations on a birthday, anniversary, or graduation, condolences on the loss of a loved one, wishes for recovery from an illness, or hailing a good deed. Get a Tribute form on a literature table.

Our Environmental Footprint Committee, chaired by Lisa Crowe and David Wokosin, reminds us to put paper in the blue recycling bins and to pay attention to the posted recycling guidelines. The committee meets again on Sunday, November 18th, at 9:30 a.m.

Our Audio-Visual Committee is looking for volunteers to assist in videotaping, audiorecording, and photographing our Sunday programs. If interested, please contact Paul Ozarowski for details. Training will be provided.

Our Library’s new books include The Ruminations and Fulminations of G.M.Wosk, by member Goldie Wosk, The Persian Puzzle, by Kenneth Pollack, and Common Sense, by Thomas Paine. Call Fred Malkinson with your suggestions or to check out a book.

Jewel “Shop and Share Days” are here again—from Monday, November 12th, to Wednesday, November 14th. The Society gets a 5-percent rebate on your purchases when you use the special coupons available on the literature tables.

Entertainment Books for 2008, with discounts for Chicago-area restaurants and theaters, are for sale. They cost $20, with the $4 rebate to the Society going to ethical action. To purchase one, contact Sue Walton.

Membership in the Society is open to those who share our ethical outlook and wish to join our caring community. The next Membership Orientation is on Sunday, November 18th, at 12:15 p.m. To discuss membership, you can also contact Membership Chair Tom Hoeppner.

Try Public transportation to our Sunday meetings. The #290 PACE bus leaves the Howard L station at 9:30 a.m. and goes to Touhy Ave. and Cicero Ave. (Skokie Blvd.). It’s then a short walk to our building. A return #290 bus to the Howard station leaves Touhy and Cicero at 1:20 p.m.

Our Board of Trustees meets on Wednesday, November 14th, at 7:15 p.m. Society members are welcome to attend.

The electronic edition of our newsletter comes sooner and saves us postage. Email a request to the office, noting pdfnewsletter as the subject and your name and address. If you’re not a member, a contributing friend, or new on our mailing list, a subscription to the mailed newsletter is $20 per year.

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Annual Pledge Drive Begins

Members and friends of the Society are receiving pledge letters asking them to recommit themselves financially to the values of our Ethical Community. The goal for fiscal 2008 is $57,000. Any member or friend who pledges a fair share of $600 ($1,200 for a couple), or increases their prior year pledge by at least 20 percent, will be considered a “Sustaining Member” and be so identified on our published pledge list. The fair share amount is a member’s contribution toward our long-term goal of having at least 50 percent of the budget coming from the annual pledge drive. Thank you for your prompt and generous response!

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Ethical Action News

The Ted Fund, a not-for-profit organization providing quality summer and after-school programs for public school children from low-income families in Evanston, has received a $300 donation from the Society, it was announced by Ethical Action co-chairs Brian Barnes and Marne Glaser in October. The money is from the 10 percent share of our Sunday collections designated for a local charity.

A Volunteer Evening at the studios of WTTW is planned during their Nov/Dec. pledge drive. A contingent of Society members will be among the volunteers answering the telephones on camera. Details on dates, hours, and sign-up are to be announced.

We’ll again be gathering new and like-new giftables for the Rice Children’s Center Holiday Store in Evanston, beginning November 25th. The items will be for Rice youngsters to give to their loved ones for the holidays. For details, check with Marne Glaser.

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About Us

The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago is a democratic fellowship and spiritual home for those who seek a rational, compassionate philosophy of life without regard to belief or nonbelief in a supreme being. We value the importance of living an ethical, responsible, and joyful life. We promote intellectual, philosophical, and artistic freedom, avoiding dogma and rigid creed. We nurture a sense of wonder about life, nature, and the universe, and are inspired by models of human achievement. Shaped by the forces of humanism, democracy, science, and religious reform, we cherish human diversity and focus on what we have in common, not on what keeps us apart.

While respectful of the faiths and traditions we may have been born to, we serve as a new religion or as an alternative to religion.

We care for and support each other, sharing our joys and sorrows. Like traditional religious communities, we celebrate births, conduct wedding ceremonies, host memorial services, and provide for the caring, ethical education of our children.

We believe in deed beyond creed and in working for a better world. We recognize the worth and dignity of every person, and strive to act so as to bring out the best in others and thereby in ourselves.

Meetings of the Ethical Humanist Society are at our home in the Greiner Center, 7574 N. Lincoln Ave., Skokie, IL 60077. Sunday meetings start at 10:30 a.m. Refreshments and a social hour follow the program. Child care is available. Everyone is welcome. If you need transportation, please call the Society office by 1 p.m. Friday. We will try to get a ride for you. The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago was founded in 1882. The Society is a member of the American Ethical Union.

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The Ethical Humanist Society of Greater Chicago, founded in 1882, is a member of the American Ethical Union.

Officers and Trustees: Scott Walton, President; Matt Cole &
Dick Carney, Vice Presidents; Paul Ozarowski, Secretary; John Ungashick, Treasurer; Yolanda Adler, Joe Burck, Lisa Crowe, Sheila Caplan Curren, Oliver Pergams, Renee Sullivan, Claude Williams

Sunday School Director: Sharon Appelquist
Office Administrator:
Alison Martin
Newsletter Editor: Alan Kimmel
Ethical Officiants: Marne Glaser, Jo-Ann Hoeppner, Tom Hoeppner, Ken Novak
AEU Representative: Tom Hoeppner

Webmaster: Simeon Carson


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